<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Mabel Loh — Blog</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/</link><description>Notes on emotional AI, building Maibel and founder life.</description><language>en-sg</language><item><title>Why not just build an AI boyfriend?</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/why-not-just-build-an-ai-boyfriend/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/why-not-just-build-an-ai-boyfriend/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 07:41:11 GMT</pubDate><description>“Why don’t you just make Maibel NSFW and skip the wellness part?” I was asked this at an AppWorks BBQ with the latest batch of founders. Loved the question, honestly.</description></item><item><title>Extreme founder sports</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/extreme-founder-sports/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/extreme-founder-sports/</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2026 07:45:41 GMT</pubDate><description>11 pitch rehearsals in 9 days, playing Mandopop on loop to fix my pronunciation. That was my Shark Tank Taiwan strategy.  After AppWorks demo day last December, a founder in the au</description></item><item><title>You need a CTO</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/you-need-a-cto/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/you-need-a-cto/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 04:15:01 GMT</pubDate><description>&quot;You need a CTO.” I heard that line a lot when I started building Maibel.  Last week at the Agentic Builders Collective, I shared the relational AI harness I designed for the first</description></item><item><title>From English lit to AI systems</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/from-english-lit-to-ai-systems/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/from-english-lit-to-ai-systems/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 01:38:31 GMT</pubDate><description>&quot;How do you go from English lit graduate to building memory architecture, eval loops, and agent workflows?” That was the first question I was asked after my show-and-tell for Carou</description></item><item><title>My AI employee made me less productive</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/my-ai-employee-made-me-less-productive/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/my-ai-employee-made-me-less-productive/</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 01:04:36 GMT</pubDate><description>I spent more time fixing my AI employee last week than fixing my actual product with live users. That's when my AI-native workflow got too meta.</description></item><item><title>Readiness is a decision</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/readiness-is-a-decision/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/readiness-is-a-decision/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 03:57:43 GMT</pubDate><description>I told myself I wasn't ready to monetize even with D30 retention at 50%... but the thing that wasn't ready was me. Early signals of PMF are already here. </description></item><item><title>I hired my first AI employee</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/i-hired-my-first-ai-employee/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/i-hired-my-first-ai-employee/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 03:14:22 GMT</pubDate><description>I hired my first AI employee in Taiwan. He crashed before I landed back home. Still kept him. Last week, I flew to Taipei for meetings and founder catchups... and then I met with C</description></item><item><title>Fact-checking my own growth</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/fact-checking-my-own-growth/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/fact-checking-my-own-growth/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 02:31:04 GMT</pubDate><description>I'm a self-taught technical founder with an English lit degree. I shipped a live AI product and tracked exactly how much I grew in 10 days. Founders are unreliable narrators of the</description></item><item><title>Building for women is the point</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/building-for-women-is-the-point/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/building-for-women-is-the-point/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 06:57:53 GMT</pubDate><description>&quot;Are you only looking to hire women in your core team?” I said no. Here's what I wish I said: I pitched Maibel last week at a founder demo night organized by 8 Circle, WisdomCircle</description></item><item><title>The audacity gap</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-audacity-gap/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-audacity-gap/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 04:29:52 GMT</pubDate><description>I lost 100lbs over 16 years. It taught me the one skill that makes me unstoppable as a founder. Last week, I flew to Hong Kong to speak at Entrepreneurship Roundtable hosted by Tin</description></item><item><title>The messy middle</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-messy-middle/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-messy-middle/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 06:47:29 GMT</pubDate><description>Most startup advice is written for people who are already on the other side of the leap.  What gets ignored is the in-between phase- when you’re building conviction quietly, withou</description></item><item><title>What I stopped automating</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/what-i-stopped-automating/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/what-i-stopped-automating/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2025 06:23:05 GMT</pubDate><description>I've been catfishing my users for 6 months. Full disclosure: the hot wellness oppa thirst traps? All me. The AI handles health advice. But every image, storyline, and narrative tha</description></item><item><title>A moat against myself</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/a-moat-against-myself/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/a-moat-against-myself/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2025 00:31:58 GMT</pubDate><description>&quot;99% of startups die by suicide.&quot; Here's how I'm building a moat against myself. One of my most memorable learnings from AppWorks came from Jamie Lin's brutal opener:</description></item><item><title>AI and loneliness</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/ai-and-loneliness/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/ai-and-loneliness/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 04:25:36 GMT</pubDate><description>Zuckerberg says AI will &quot;cure loneliness.&quot; But I'm staring at Meta's AI companions wondering: whose loneliness, exactly? Millions talk to 'Russian girl' and 'Step Mom.' I've been c</description></item><item><title>Most apps track steps. Mine flirts back.</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/most-apps-track-steps-mine-flirts-back/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/most-apps-track-steps-mine-flirts-back/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 12:36:03 GMT</pubDate><description>Yo Y Combinator, heard of SEA’s first $100B AI-native, women-led Love and Deep Space for wellness?  
It’s called Maibel. 🚀 Think thirst traps meet therapy bots… but with waaay hig</description></item><item><title>The feelings are real</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-feelings-are-real/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/the-feelings-are-real/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2025 08:48:46 GMT</pubDate><description>The real risk isn’t that AI is fake. 
It’s that the feelings it triggers are real. Last week, I was invited to showcase Maibel at Catalyst: Trust on the Horizons of AI, hosted by N</description></item><item><title>A curry stain and a bigger conversation</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/a-curry-stain-and-a-bigger-conversation/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/a-curry-stain-and-a-bigger-conversation/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2025 05:16:13 GMT</pubDate><description>Solo-pitched a minister with a curry stain on my $12 tee… and ended up in the national news. Yesterday was a fever dream in a room full of tech optimists, ethicists and AI educator</description></item><item><title>What's Special About a Woman's Health and Fitness Coach?</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/whats-special-about-a-womans-health-and-fitness-coach/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/whats-special-about-a-womans-health-and-fitness-coach/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2023 04:52:38 GMT</pubDate><description>Starting a fitness journey is a big step towards leading a healthier, happier life. However, many women face a range of struggles when starting on their fitness journey, especially</description></item><item><title>AI’s Potential in Women’s Health and Fitness Coaching</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/ais-potential-in-womens-health-and-fitness-coaching/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/ais-potential-in-womens-health-and-fitness-coaching/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2023 04:03:23 GMT</pubDate><description>As a female fitness coaching specialist, I’m always looking for new ways to help my clients. This includes keeping up to date with the latest technological advancements to consider</description></item><item><title>Overcoming Gymtimidation: Fear the Gym No More</title><link>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/overcoming-gymtimidation-fear-the-gym-no-more/</link><guid>https://www.mabelloh.com/blog/overcoming-gymtimidation-fear-the-gym-no-more/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2022 04:04:15 GMT</pubDate><description>What makes going to the gym so anxiety-inducing? Navigating the sea of confusing equipment on a crowded gym floor filled with sweaty bodies can exacerbate the intimidation that one</description></item></channel></rss>